• Trans Talk: Experiencing the Breadth of the Gender Spectrum

    (Mirror) I think I’m in a relatively unique position when it comes to noticing and experiencing the way gender plays out in our society. I’ve been in both female and male public restrooms.

  • Trans Talk: My Meta Experience

    In May 2018, I had a hysterectomy and a metoidioplasty. It was one 6.5 hour surgery with three different surgeons. Dr. Kristene Whitmore came in and took out the cervix and uterus, then another doctor came in and removed both fallopian tubes, and finally Dr. Kathy Rumer performed my metoidioplasty, commonly referred to as meta. 

  • Trans Talk: Queerness Erased

    When I identified as a lesbian, I really looked like a lesbian. My hair was cut in a faux hawk, I wore only gender-neutral or masculine clothing, I smoked cigarettes, and I drank beer. 

  • TransTalk: A Story of Hope, Love, and Growth

     When my wife and I got married a little over two months ago, we opted not to have a traditional wedding party with female bridesmaids and male groomsmen.

  • TransTalk: An Ode to all Trans People Who have been Through it

    Look at how fucking resilient we are. Look how strong. Look at all the shit we’ve gone through and we’re still here. 

  • TransTalk: Dating, Disclosing, and Love

    Finding love is a big concern for trans people, and it’s not without its validation. A trans guy told me that when he came out to his mom, his mom said, “Who’s going to love you?”

  • TransTalk: Feeling Safe as a Trans Person

    (Mirror) Is it even possible to feel safe as a trans person? The only way for a trans person to feel safe is for nobody to know they’re trans. Notice that I say “feel safe,” and not “be safe.” There’s no such thing as actually being safe today, although there are times when we can feel like we’re safe. 

  • TransTalk: Haircuts and Barbershops as a Trans Person

    Hair is an important part of the way someone presents to the world. A haircut can say a lot about someone, whether you want to appear professional maybe carefree, or predictable, hip and trendy, etc. Socially, hair can also say a lot about someone’s gender. 

  • TransTalk: The Diversity of the Trans Community

    (Mirror) The typical transgender narrative is that you’ve known since age 4, you identify very strongly as male or female, and you’ve never wavered in that belief. The truth is that there are a lot of ways to be transgender and the typical narrative is not everyone’s story. 

  • TransTalk: Trans People Deserve To Recover In Affirming Spaces

    My name is Atticus and I’m an alcoholic. I’m 4 and a half years sober. When I hit my bottom, I was pulled over by the police, kicked out of my apartment, and my girlfriend broke with me.

  • TransTalk: You Don’t Have to be Around People Who Don’t Accept You

    This year is the year I start accepting the love I deserve, and that means letting go of a lot of people who don’t love and accept me.