Far-right and extremist voices have launched a significant attack against the LGBT community in 2021-2022, demonizing people via repeated false claims that LGBT people are “pedophiles” who are “grooming” children in order to abuse them.
This false and malicious narrative has been weaponized to label the LGBT community as “groomers” and has fueled a slew of hostile legislation and policies aimed at erasing the discussion of LGBT-related issues in schools, removing LGBT books from schools and public libraries and, especially, to ostracize, defame and harass transgender people.
The result of this widespread hateful rhetoric has been a spike in harassment, threats and violence targeting the LGBT community. This dangerous development increases the risks facing an already marginalized group by falsely accusing them of one of the vilest behaviors imaginable, in a way that implicitly (and sometimes explicitly) condones violence. Politicians, extremists and pundits alike are fanning the flames of this hateful campaign, which not infrequently includes elements of antisemitism alongside its core anti-gay and anti-transgender hate.
What is ‘grooming’?
Anti-LGBT extremists have misappropriated a legitimate term related to sexual abuse in order to demonize LGBT people. RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network), the United States’ largest anti-sexual violence organization, defines grooming as “manipulative behaviors” used by sexual abusers “to gain access to a potential victim, coerce them to agree to the abuse, and reduce the risk of being caught.”
True grooming can occur online or in-person. Abusers may attempt to gain a young person’s trust by giving them gifts and attention, and by taking them on special trips. Groomers may also attempt to form a relationship with a young person’s family or friends to make themselves seem more trustworthy.
How has the term ‘grooming’ been co-opted and exploited by anti-LGBT bigots?
Anti-LGBT figures do not use terms such as “grooming” and “groomer” legitimately. Instead, they imply or explicitly claim that LGBT people are pedophiles who are preying on children by discussing issues related to sexual orientation and gender identity. They claim that teaching young people about these topics is somehow really intended to encourage them to question their gender identity and sexual orientation – in other words, LGBT people are trying to “sexualize children” and “recruit” them into the LGBT community.
Such accusations have a long history in the U.S. For decades, anti-LGBT figures have falsely accused LGBT people of molesting children and being sympathetic to child predators in order to demonize the community and resist advances in LGBT rights. Research has repeatedly shown that LGBT people do not molest children at higher rates than non-LGBT people.
Origins of the anti-LGBT false grooming narrative
Baseless accusations that LGBT people and others are “grooming” children began to circulate on Twitter in 2021, promoted in particular by conservative pundits Christopher Rufo and James Lindsay, as well as the anti-LGBT Twitter account known as Libs of TikTok. However, it wasn’t until spring 2022 that “grooming” rhetoric really became a major anti-LGBT narrative getting nationwide attention, thanks in large part to publicity surrounding a controversial anti-LGBT law passed in Florida.
On March 28, 2022, Florida Governor Ron DeSantis signed into law the Parental Rights in Education Act, often referred to by critics as the “Don’t Say Gay” bill. The law prohibits classroom instruction on gender identity or sexual orientation in grades K-3 in Florida public schools; it also prohibits instruction on sexual orientation and gender identity issues that are not “age-appropriate or developmentally appropriate for students” in any grade. Like the controversy surrounding critical race theory in 2021, the Florida bill – and similar laws proposed in other states – are based on the false premise that educators are trying to “indoctrinate” students.
Angry that opponents had nicknamed the measure the “Don’t Say Gay” bill, Christina Pushaw, DeSantis’ press secretary, tweeted on March 4 that “the bill that liberals inaccurately call “Don’t Say Gay” would be more accurately described as an Anti-Grooming Bill.” In a follow-up tweet, she claimed that anyone who opposed the bill was “probably a groomer.”
Supporters of the bill quickly adopted “groomer” rhetoric to attack opponents of the legislation. In a March 8 tweet, for example, conservative talk show host Jesse Kelly wrote that, “Republicans, you have everything on your side on this issue. Do not avoid it. Run on it. Demand your opponent respond to questions about it. Call them groomers and pedophiles if they oppose it. Put THEM on the defensive. Make THEM afraid. Make THEM avoid talking about it. You have the high ground. Use it to destroy your enemy.”
On her March 9 show, Fox News host Laura Ingraham followed suit, asking, “When did our public schools, any schools, become what are essentially grooming centers for gender identity radicals? As a mom, I think it's appalling, it's frightening, it's disgusting, it's despicable." Benny Johnson, the Chief Creative Officer for conservative group Turning Point USA, tweeted on March 11 that “If you believe perverted groomer teachers should be allowed to sexualize kindergartners and parents have no right to know or protest than you are a sunken demonic person. Find God.” An April 2022 report from Media Matters found that Fox News had aired 170 segments focusing on transgender people over a three-week period as it covered opposition to the “Don’t Say Gay” bill.
Attacks against Disney
On March 28 – the day DeSantis signed the bill into law – the Walt Disney Company released a statement saying the bill “should never have been signed into law” and that their “goal as a company” was for the law “to be repealed by the legislature or struck down in the courts.”
Disney quickly became the target of “grooming” accusations due to its denouncement of the bill. Right-wing pundit Candace Owens tweeted that the company had “openly admitted they have a not so secret agenda with your children.” Far-right Arizona state senator Wendy Rogers tweeted on March 30 that “Disney should now be known as the grooming company.” In April 2022, right-wing conspiracy theorist Jack Posobiec accused Disney of supporting grooming in a tweet; “Disney Groomer” began trending on Twitter shortly after.
Disney also drew the ire of a variety of right-wing extremists and conspiracy theorists. On April 6, over a hundred protesters gathered outside of Disney's headquarters in Burbank, California, to oppose the company’s “woke” agenda. Attendees carried signs that read “Disney: Stop Mousing Around With Our Kids” and “Boycott Disney and Their Attack On Our Kids: It’s a Satanic Agenda.” The event was organized by Sean Feucht, a Christian singer-songwriter who frequently performs at the conspiratorial “Reawaken America” conferences.
In April and May 2022, members of the white supremacist group White Lives Matter Florida staged protests outside of Walt Disney World in Orlando alongside members of the neo-Nazi Sunshine State Nationalists and the Proud Boys. The antisemitic Goyim Defense League has also distributed fliers across the U.S. claiming "every single aspect of Disney child grooming is Jewish.”
Libs of TikTok
As the “groomer” narrative has gained traction, LGBT people have faced a wave of increased harassment, threats and violence. On far-right forums, users have repeatedly doxed and threatened drag queens, teachers, Disney employees and healthcare workers, leading to the cancellation of LGBT events and heightened security outside schools and hospitals.
No person or entity has been more influential at inciting this hate than the anti-LGBT Twitter account Libs of TikTok, operated by former real estate agent Chaya Raichik. The account, which has over 1.3 million followers and has been praised by the likes of Pushaw and Fox News host Tucker Carlson, reposts selected out-of-context social media content created by LGBT people and liberals in order to generate outrage and stoke anti-LGBT hostility. Raichik has frequently characterized LGBT people and allies, as well as those who teach about LGBT issues and healthcare professionals who offer gender-affirming care, as “groomers.” The individuals, events, schools and organizations targeted by Libs of TikTok are frequent targets of harassment, threats and violence.
In spring 2022, the Kiel Area School District in Wisconsin launched a Title IX investigation into three middle school students for allegedly bullying a transgender classmate, including by repeatedly addressing them by the wrong pronouns. Libs of TikTok publicized the investigation in mid-May; the district soon received a wave of harassing calls and emails. The school district, as well as the town library and City Hall, also received multiple bomb threats, and the FBI arrested a California man for threatening to kill a district employee. In response to the threats, the city cancelled its annual Memorial Day parade, and the district went virtual for the rest of the school year. The district closed the Title IX investigation in early June.
In August 2022, Boston Children’s Hospital became the target of a major harassment campaign after Libs of TikTok falsely asserted that the hospital was performing gender-affirming hysterectomies on “young girls,” a claim that has been debunked by PolitiFact and USA Today. The hospital suffered a barrage of harassing phone calls and emails as a result and has also been targeted twice by bomb threats. Libs of TikTok has since targeted other hospitals with false claims about gender-affirming care, leading to similar harassment and threats against these facilities. Anti-LGBT figures have also accused numerous doctors who provide gender-affirming care of engaging in “child mutilation.”
Libs of TikTok essentially acts as a compass, guiding anti-LGBT activists towards targets for harassment and protest. Drag events, such as family-friendly drag shows and “drag queen story hours,” have become a popular target for anti-LGBT activists, who believe such events “sexualize children” and are encouraging young people to embrace an “immoral lifestyle.”
Organizers and sponsors of numerous LGBT events have had to cancel events out of fears for attendee and staff safety after being targeted by Libs of TikTok.
- In July 2022, a youth-led drag show in North Bay, Ontario, was postponed for safety reasons after organizers received death threats and harassing messages online. Libs of TikTok had posted about the event a week earlier.
- On June 30, 2022, several Proud Boys stormed into Mojo’s Lounge & Bar in Woodland, California, even though the drag event scheduled for that evening had already been cancelled due to threats of violence. Organizers say that the threats began after Libs of TikTok tweeted about the event.
- On June 11, 2022, right-wing extremists targeted a "Pride in the Park” event in Coeur d’Alene, Idaho, after Libs of TikTok tweeted about it. Thirty-one members of the white supremacist group Patriot Front, including the group’s leader Thomas Rousseau, were arrested on criminal conspiracy charges after police stopped their U-Haul truck on their way to the event. In the park itself, around 30 white supremacist groypers held a prayer circle to “distract” attendees from the “satanist” event.
- On June 11, 2022, 10 Proud Boys, one of whom was wearing a t-shirt that said, “Kill your local pedophile,” disrupted a Drag Queen Story Hour event at the San Lorenzo Library in San Lorenzo, California. The Alameda County Sheriff's Office opened a hate crimes investigation into the incident. Libs of TikTok had tweeted about the event two weeks earlier.
- On June 4, 2022, the anti-LGBTQ+ group “Protect Texas Kids” staged a protest outside of a family-friendly drag event in Dallas, Texas, chanting “groomers” at attendees. One protester followed a performer to her car after the event, screaming at her, "Do you like dancing for little children? You don't think that's disgusting? You should be ashamed of yourself." Libs of TikTok had tweeted about the event a few days earlier.
- In Apex, North Carolina, a Drag Queen Story Hour event was cancelled shortly after it was the subject of a Libs of TikTok tweet. The town’s mayor announced the city’s festival commission decided to cancel the event due to a “variety of feedback.”
Embracing the 'groomer' narrative
The far right is specifically targeting mainstream conservatives and some members of the Republican party, selling the false groomer narrative as a tool to score political points and rally voters ahead of the 2022 midterms. According to the Human Rights Campaign, as of July 2022, 23 states have introduced anti-LGBT bills in 2022; 13 states have signed anti-LGBTQ+ bills into law. CNN reports that more than 40 bills have been proposed by Republican lawmakers across 18 states as of July 2022, aimed at restricting what teachers can say about LGBT-related topics in the classroom.
Right-wing extremists have also adopted the groomer narrative to further demonize LGBT people, justify harassment and violence towards the LGBT community and advance their own infiltration of the mainstream right. The Proud Boys have disrupted at least 10 LGBT events since March 2022, accounting for more than half of anti-LGBT extremist event activity tracked by the ADL Center on Extremism this year.
For white supremacists, claims that LGBT people are “grooming” children pair neatly with the movement’s “white genocide” narrative. White supremacists argue that LGBT “lifestyles” and pedophilia are promoted by Jewish elites to decrease white birth rates and aid supposed Jewish plans to “replace” the white population with Black and Brown people.
White supremacists have frequently targeted LGBT events over the past few months:
- On August 7, 2022, approximately 16 members of the neo-Nazi Nationalist Social Club (NSC-131) protested a Drag Queen Story Hour event in Boston, Massachusetts. The event was eventually cancelled by its host, who wrote on Twitter that she did not want to risk putting children attending the event in a “potentially violent situation.”
- On July 30, 2022, several individuals associated with the New Jersey European Heritage Association, another neo-Nazi group, protested at the Bordentown Pride Parade. They held a banner that read: “Drag queen story hour is child grooming.”
- On July 23, 2022, approximately 20 members of the Nationalist Social Club protested a Drag Queen Story Hour event in Jamaica Plain, Massachusetts. NSC founder Christopher Hood, Jr. was arrested for allegedly brawling with a counter-protester.
- On June 25, 2022, several persons associated with White Lives Matter California, a white supremacist group, protested a family-friendly Pride event at the Sacramento Children's Museum in Rancho Cordova, California. They held a banner that read "Groomers are not welcome in California."
- On June 11, 2022, several people associated with the neo-Nazi group NatSoc Florida demonstrated outside of a Hamburger Mary’s restaurant in Jacksonville, Florida, wearing shirts with swastikas and holding signs that read: “Child groomers work here,” “Fags groom kids,” “Grooming in progress” and “Judaism allows child rape.” The group also distributed anti-LGBTQ+ fliers in nearby neighborhoods.
False and malicious accusations that LGBT people are “grooming” children have resulted in a dangerous campaign of hate and violence against the LGBT community. Across the United States, extremists and mainstream conservatives alike employ this hateful rhetoric to harass the LGBT community. Painting the LGBT community as child predators and criminals will lead to continued harassment and violence against a community already suffering from hate speech, harassment and violence by extremists and bigots.
Reprinted with permission of the Anti-Defamation League.
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